Short answer
Yes, but only in limited cases
Only in limited cases. KDADS's Frail Elderly page says your spouse can't be your paid attendant. K.A.R. 30-5-307 allows a narrow exception only when all other options are exhausted and one of four documented extraordinary criteria is met, such as a home so remote that services are otherwise unavailable.
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Programs to ask about in Kansas
Frail Elderly (FE) waiver – self-directed Attendant Care Services
On the FE waiver, Attendant Care Services is the only service you can self-direct, and you can choose a family member other than your spouse as your worker.
How to apply
Ask your KanCare MCO care coordinator.