Short answer
Generally no
No. Missouri's HCBS manual says the attendant can't be the participant's spouse or legal guardian (DHSS HCBS manual).
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The programs to ask about, documents to gather, and who to call in Missouri. Print it now, no email needed.
Programs to ask about in Missouri
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Consumer-Directed Services (CDS) – Personal Care Assistance
The participant is employer of record and hires a personal care attendant, such as a family member or friend; a CDS provider handles payroll.
How to apply
See the DHSS HCBS FAQ.
If a spouse can't be paid, another relative often can. See who can be paid in Missouri.
Before you act: rules change and individual eligibility depends on your assessment. Confirm with the program. This page summarizes official sources and does not promise eligibility or pay.